Friday, March 27, 2015 ❤
Recently had been busy preparing for baby girl's first birthday celebration. There is so much to plan and all those things which need to put in to consideration is so damn much. Things like decorations. And you probably would want to find decoration which is cheap and cost lesser as you can spend more on the food and other stuffs which will be more memorable for the little ones. So I had found decoration which is much more cheaper that I could find in Singapore in Aliexpress. It cost lesser like almost half of the price which you could spend. But one bad thing about shopping online is you have to shop earlier than usual because it need time to be delivered to you. And it would take almost 2 to 3 weeks to reached you or later. But for the price, shopping earlier would be a better solution. :)
So far, my husband and I had already planned to have a photobooth for our guest to take picture and keep the hard copy for themselves as a memory and we would keep the softcopy for our little one to browse when she is older. Her birthday theme would be Rainbow as I think she really brought colors into our lives and also those who are near us. Before she came into the world, everything seems to be so dull and I would always have anxiety of life. But with her presence now, everyday seems to be cheerful and wonderful for me. That's why I choose this theme for her. I don't know if she would like it when she grow up and look back to those celebration theme I had set for her, but I think if she really understand why I used this theme instead of others, I think she will be pleased with what is planned for her.
Anyway, we had already order her cake and also had send out her birthday invitation cards. I guess the most beautiful things in her birthday celebration would be the birthday card and also the cake. Both cost a bomb but, these are really memorable for her. :P
Hopefully her birthday will goes well as planned and would update all those details once her birthday celebration is over.
LI YAN
❤ LI GUANG
Always the one I teasure.
12:45 PM
Monday, February 9, 2015 ❤
It's been awhile since I have posted my blog. I didn't plan to abandon it! It's just that I really doesn't have time to update it. Everyday is a busy day for me. Now my little Clara knows how to crawl, sit and climb here and there, I need to 24/7 look after her safety. You won't know the next moment what she is going to touch or put anything in her mouth.
After being a mum for going to 8 months, I can say being a mum is really tiring yet enjoyable. I think the best part of being a mum is when you smile at her and she smile back at you. And the moment she laugh or giggle at something, it really melts your heart like an ice cream under the sun.
Looking at her growing up, accomplish all her milestones, really made me feel proud of her.
Sometimes, when she did something wrong and I really don't can't bear to scold her. Like with the watery eyes and she cries like a poor little girl. I just can't.
But sometimes she really did something very wrong and I really have to punish her. Things like biting cables. And trying to reached for this on the table which we already tried to block her from moving to the table. Hopefully when she grows up she would be a good girl which will not break my heart. :)
It's fun to have a cutiepie being by your side everyday. Now she would get jealous when her daddy come close to me. She will abandon whatever she is doing and rush towards me and cry. It's really very cute seeing her being like that.
Really hope that she will be this cute and small forever. Time is really passing too fast. It was like I just gave birth to her yesterday.
She's now already 9 months old and she already knows how to call me "mama" with her teary eyes when she wants me to carry her. She would fake cough when she want to eat something which I'm eating so I would give her some. She would laugh at me when I sneeze and saying "aiyo". When she's angry she would do the groaning sound. Haha. She already start to express herself in her own way. It's kind of joy for me to see her growing at this stage. Wondering when she will start to walk and following us where ever we are going. This coming June we are going to Taiwan for holiday before my husband and I going to work. Really looking forward for our first oversea trip as a family of 3. :)
Yesterday was the first time we bring our little princess to the pool for her to experience swimming pool. But poor little baby, she wanted to sleep but we wake her up and change her to let her experience the pool. We went to buy Huggies diaper for her to wear in order to go to the pool because we will never know when a baby will start to poo at any time of the day although she had already poo in the morning. So after we by the diapers from kiddy palace, we bus to Choa Chu Kang swimming complex. We went in for free because there is an app called "active SG" which every Singaporean can create this account and would have $100 in the account to buy tickets for swimming or when you want to enter the gym. So going to the pool is for free.
After changing her, Hubby carried her into the pool. She was scared in the first place and wanted me to carry her instead of my husband. She keep making noises and showing her upset faces.
So I got no choice to carry her and let her into the toddler pool. The water was quite cold and maybe she doesn't like it. So I hold her hands and let her walked around in the swimming pool.
She wanted to climb up the pool after awhile. Maybe she find it too cold or maybe she just doesn't like the water.
She is just so adorable. haha.. Bringing a baby to the pool is really quite interesting and baby just couldn't stop their interest in everything there. It's a great experience though.
LI YAN
❤ LI GUANG
Always the one I teasure.
2:50 PM
Thursday, September 18, 2014 ❤
My HUSBAND
Ever since I have delivered my baby, my blog post seems to be all about my little princess and nothing much about my husband. However this time, I will post something different. Yesterday was our monthsary which marks our 5 years 8 months being together. Didn't had the chance to snap a picture of us and post anything on Instagram to celebrate our monthsary as my little princess was ill. So I guess I shall post something special for him on my blog. :)
We had been together for so long since we were in secondary five. At that time, I have experienced so much of jealousy and I wonder if we could last till we are old enough to get married. Yes, I'm feeling insecure back then. Of course you always assure me this and that. And I still can't feel the security. After a few years being together, our love grew much stronger. There were endless of me getting jealous and always sending message that I am super upset, but each time out love grew a bit stronger.
Few years back, remembered that my family is having some problems and you never failed to be by my side. Always come over to my house when you hear me quarreling with my father because of my mum. You always came to check if I'm okay. Back then, I think I'm have aniexty problem. Everytime I would be worried for nothing. Everytime you would calm down. And you starting to give me the security I need in my life during that point.
Last year, when we found out that I'm pregnant, you gave me all the attention and you are always by my side. I guessed that is when I felt the most protected and full of security part of my life. You would assist me in everything I do. Wait for me to end school, come fetch me home from school and helping me to carry my heavy bag. I felt like I'm an extinct animal under protection. But the feeling of my precious husband taking care of me is really heaven.
And there is something really going to extinct in my life. And it's a photo of just you, my husband, alone in my phone. My phone now currently only have you and baby Clara in the photo. I must admit that, we really having lesser photos of just you and me together already.
You are really a good husband and also a good daddy. After marriage, I know I had become very naggy and sometime bad attitude toward you. And everything that in unhappy about, I would always blame you and scold you. Guess I'm just feeling insecure and unprotected. Ya. Sometimes, just felt sad because no one ever asked me how am I and what I'm really thinking about and things always doesn't goes my way and I'm here alone outside without my own family members. That's why I'm always eager to go visit my mum every weekends.
I'm happy to have you as my husband and that is one of the things that I does to regret in my whole life. You are a gifted to me. And you gave me a pleasant surprise of baby Clara. She had cheered so many people's life up after her arrival.
You don't stop learning as a husband and daddy. From zero to hero. I'm glad that you had learnt how to bath a baby, change her diaper, feed her medication, carry her and pat her to sleep and also a lot more things which you had learnt how to take care of an infant. I love you more each day and always. xoxo.
LI YAN
❤ LI GUANG
Always the one I teasure.
1:01 PM
Saturday, July 26, 2014 ❤
This post if mainly about my little princess. She had become more and more chubbier. Everyday have to face this cutie pie. Each morning, she would wake up and wants milk. She'll go back to sleep once she is full. When her pampers is wet, she will make noises to make you notice her and want you to change her. She's seriously adorable and sometimes kissing her cheeks is like never enough.
All my energy had already spend on her and sometime I can't find much time and energy to do others things. It's a tiring job to be a mum, but yet a pleasant experience.
Currently teaching her how to grab her toys and shake her toys. She currently 2 month plus and going to be 3 months old next month. Everyday there is new things to learn. Very soon she will be able to eat porridge. Can't wait to cook her food and feed her. Now when she see us having our dinner, she will suck her hands.
Why can't you slow down growing my little one? Mummy hope you could slow down and let mummy have more time to spend with you.
Life have been quite tiring lately. Everyday morning when my little princess wakes up she will want to have her fresh milk. Everyday is like cycle now. Feed her, change her diapers and make her sleep. Sometimes she will be a bit grumpy.
She now know how to smile more often. She's growing up too fast.
Everyday spent with her is a gift. And here's a picture of her and her daddy Ben. :)
The both of them are so precious to me. In fact, in this world, people who I can't live without are my mother, brother, baby and my lovely husband. They are like my happy pills. Especially my dearest husband who never failed to cheer me up and always be by my side when I'm feeling upset. Thank you my love ones for making my life more meaningful and happy. Love you all !
LI YAN
❤ LI GUANG
Always the one I teasure.
5:54 PM
Saturday, July 5, 2014 ❤
Okay, I'm getting a bit too lazy to on my laptop and post my blog. Seriously, there is no much time for me to do stuffs. If there is time for me, I would just sleep to ensure that I have enough rest so that I could take care of my little princess. :)
My little princess have grown up quite a lot. She had become a little more chubbier, cranky, cute and lovely each day.
She also attended my graduation.
During her full month, she shaved her hair botak.
During her full month celebration.
And also Baby Tan celebrate with his daddy the first Father's Day.
And we also took our first family photo on father's day.
There are still so much photos of her
Her first time taking MRT train. :)
Had so much photos of her that my phone is going to have no more space for photos already. Had to save those photo in my laptop already. She really is so precious to me that I can't take my eyes off her. Like everytime when she is not around with me, I feel so uneasy.
She just have to be by my side all the time. Recently she started to smile when I play with her or talk to her and she also know how to show her attitude when she is unhappy or uncomfortable. She really grown up a lot and now currently quite hug-able. She would stare into the blank and suddenly she would smile. Sometimes when I'm feeling upset, by looking at her, I would feel much happier as she would give me a confuse look which looks like "Mummy, are you okay?". There was once, when she saw me cry and she just stared at me quietly.
Being a mummy with no experience at all is really challenging. You have to find out what she is unhappy about. It could be her wet diaper, her stomach is feeling unwell, she wants to be carried or she is feeling hungry. You have to find out yourself as she can't communicate with you. If everything you can do you had already done, she still cries, means she want to be carried and pampered her to sleep.
I can tell you my little princess is a little fussy. She will choose what kind of milk she wants to drink. She will choose breast milk over milk powder and I don't know why. Usually once baby taste milk powder they will choose to drink milk powder rather than breast milk. And because she choose breast milk over milk powder, it save us quite a lot of money. We only bought a tin of milk powder since the day she was born and till now that tin of milk powder still have finish yet.
Anyway, being a mummy must have lot of patience, love and care. It's kind of difficult to take care of a baby, but with your baby by your side everyday it the most blessed things that you can feel.
LI YAN
❤ LI GUANG
Always the one I teasure.
12:53 AM
MY HUSBAND !